倘若是长距离恋爱，男方必须探访你3次，你才可以回访他
It's the equivalent of three dates, so no sex or sleep-overs either
这与3次约会理论相似，当然期间必须没有肉体关系。
When placing a personal ad online, wait for men to respond to you
相信你在网上登过征婚启事，或者宣传自己的小广告，等着吧，你的心上人会自动送上门来
Men should always pursue women first
记住了，一段健康的恋情，必须是男方先主动对女方发起追求的。
If he does not call, he is not interested
如果他不打电话给你，他就是没兴趣了。
Bottom line
这个是底线。绝对是底线。
Don't date a man for over two years
你约会已经2年了么？那算了吧，结婚没戏。
You've already spent more than a year waiting for him to propose; do you have another year to wait?
你已经花了2年时间等待他向你求婚？省省吧，他不会求婚了的，你看你还有多少年等他呢？
Observe his behaviour so you don't end up with Mr Wrong
仔细观察
Is he cheap? Or overly critical?
他是一个吹毛求疵的人么？
Keep doing the rules even when things are slow
还是尽量按常理出牌，尽管恋情进展缓慢。别冲动、义气用事。
Take care of yourself, take a bubble bath and build up your soul with positive slogans like 'I am a beautiful woman. I am enough.'
在感情不顺的时候，洗一个泡泡澡吧，像刘德华一样，每天早上一醒来就对自己喊口号：是的，我很帅(我很美)！
